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Even though I don’t blog too much myself,truly it can be said that blogging is what makes my world go round.I love reading blogs.life in a way,is taking a whole dimension. but for many the Internet has become a serious problem.They are the net addicts (day in day out ,we are stuck to our PC’s) he!he!he!.

Worried about yourself?.Well if you want to know how much the web actually influences your life,

Check it out

You wake up at 4am to go to the bathroom and check your email on your way back to bed.

You chat with someone from America,Africa,etc,for several times a week,and not spoken to your next door neighbour for some months.(What if he is a bad neighbour??? He!He!He! I am sure some will tell us.

You hear most of your joke via email instead of in person.

You start tilting your head sideways to smile .

You can’t help writing YOU as U YOUR as OR etc etc.

You always write info,prob,and casegoes,dunno,rite,mite…….

Your idea of being organised is creating folders on-your desktop,email,blogging,etc

You get your news and weather from a web site.

You consider a second day delivery painfully slow.

Blogging through the night when all is quite.

You thinking about your blog 24/7

Spending too much time on your PC (right…..not…. me He!He!He!)

Whenever you click off,Do you have this feeling of parting with someone you love,this awful feeling,as if you pulled the plug on a loved one( THIS was something out of the blue He!he!He! .I made it up.
The web is a place where you can learn and meet a lot of nice people.as long you keep things in perspective.The important thing is to make IT a part of your life.Not the other way round.

So I said to myself:

I must go out for a walk smell the flowers this time of the year they smell nice,visit someone grandmother,mother.friends and so on because my friend, don’t forget the real world will always be much more warm and beautiful. Nothing my friend can beat that.

So me for a walk later I have important things to attand to ……….Check my email,read blogs,Send greeting card,surf the web ………….

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LOCK OF HAIR
I am the honoured one and the scorned one,

I am the whore and the holy one,

I am the wife and the virgin,

A lock of hair is an infinite tangled chain,

The person wise enough to untie that knot is insane.

(Can some one untangle it..:)..try it )

Have you ever stopped and thought why people come in your life. This kept going round and round my head.

Sometimes people come in your life and bang! right away you know that they were meant to be there……..kinda sort of serve some kind purpose,like i.e. teach you a lesson or even help you figure things out or who you are or who you want to become.

you never know who these people are and when you meet them you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And they are times, when things happen to you at the time they may seem horrible,painful and unfair,but in reflection you realize that without over coming those obstacles you would never realize your potential,strength or will power.

Everything happens for a reason.Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck.love,illness,lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all these things occurs to test limits of your inner soul.

Without these small tests, life would become boring

It would be like a smooth road ,flat road to nowhere safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
People we meet in our life,the successes and downfalls that one experiences can make you what you are.And the bad experiences one can learn from.

i.e.- If someone hurts you,betrays you or break your heart,

forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you,but also because they are teaching you to love.

open your heart and eyes,ears,the whole of your self to them,look out for little things Make every moment count.

Appreciate every thing that you possibly can,for you may never experience it again.

Break-free ,hold your head up because you have every right to.

Tell your self you are great individual and believe in your self,For if you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. .

• Laying in bed staring at the ceiling trying to switch off the weeks happening.I been trying to turn off the images that has have gnawed away ever since I heard the details of ALL the happenings this week.

First like taking true love for granted is one mistake we all make its a mistake that remains forever. What we have is rare special. not all of us can make a claim of being at peace with our loved ones.We neglect it.We forget the person we don’t turn too or care for will be gone one day. Forever – i.e. our mum and dad love.children,friends,life partner.
Why? We forget to go the extra mile .That little bit more for love To realise the importance of someone …….After the have gone IS harshest lesson of all. you only have one chance(maybe two) OK! If you miss it(boy-o-boy)That chance is gone forever(Destiny can do that some time)

I like to believe ALL-mighty GOD made us , as one nation.

Groups of people who love each-other and have the same feelings. And across lifetimes we are born together, we meet,learn, and depart. Holding on is the toughest task and letting go is a matter of a blink of an eye Then, why not go that extra bit .Doing that little bit extra, might seem emotional( *Bull-S**t) :”> You have to, if you don’t want to be a looser.

My dear uncle passed away, may he rest in peace.He was a good uncle.

And Stinky Steve he walked out never been back since

Read this! mistake on resume

” I am extremely loyal to my present firm, so please, please , don’t let them know of my immediate availability”